Dating should be healthy. Not that dating can carry disease, but unhealthy dating always brings a bad effect for each pair. So, in essence, courtship is healthy who knows the limits.
Sometimes there are couples who do not know if they have exceeded the limit because they do not know where that boundary. Alan instance (not her real name). He liked to gather together with friends, sometimes to forget the time, even up to not let his girlfriend, Debby (also not her real name). For reasons such as Debby's angry until finally beat Alan. The illustration shows an unhealthy dating. Want to know why? Let's look at some definitions and tips on healthy dating:
1. Healthy dating is dating a physically healthy. There should be no physical violence between couples. Debby done, by beating Alan, wrong. It was during this violence happens mostly done by men, but did not rule out the occurrence of violence of women.
2. No restraint in social relations. Remember, if you are still in the courtship stage, your spouse is not everything. Social relations with other friends to stay. You also may not prohibit the couple to get along with anyone, because it is the right of your partner.
3. Emotionally healthy is also important. Try to understand each other. Create a comfortable relationship. The most important thing is to control your emotions as possible.
4. Sexually healthy. The impetus to do more than just holding hands is always there. Therefore, control yourself is as strong as possible to not make excessive physical contact because of its impact if you are up to bablas, it is not good. Use your faith as a limitation.
Sometimes there are couples who do not know if they have exceeded the limit because they do not know where that boundary. Alan instance (not her real name). He liked to gather together with friends, sometimes to forget the time, even up to not let his girlfriend, Debby (also not her real name). For reasons such as Debby's angry until finally beat Alan. The illustration shows an unhealthy dating. Want to know why? Let's look at some definitions and tips on healthy dating:
1. Healthy dating is dating a physically healthy. There should be no physical violence between couples. Debby done, by beating Alan, wrong. It was during this violence happens mostly done by men, but did not rule out the occurrence of violence of women.
2. No restraint in social relations. Remember, if you are still in the courtship stage, your spouse is not everything. Social relations with other friends to stay. You also may not prohibit the couple to get along with anyone, because it is the right of your partner.
3. Emotionally healthy is also important. Try to understand each other. Create a comfortable relationship. The most important thing is to control your emotions as possible.
4. Sexually healthy. The impetus to do more than just holding hands is always there. Therefore, control yourself is as strong as possible to not make excessive physical contact because of its impact if you are up to bablas, it is not good. Use your faith as a limitation.
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